Sex Should be Enjoyable!
Okay, so I’ve got everything up and running now, on the new domain It didn’t take me as long as I thought it would to update the WordPress Themes, so I got them all done in about 1/2 hour :D Please do let me know if you find something wonky with them or with anything else on the site!
Besides working on moving the blog to this subdomain, I’ve been pretty busy with my other sites. Screencap Me desperately needs more caps. I’ve got like 2 disks of Angel that’s been capped and 2 movies done. I still need to weed through all the caps though before I add them to the site! No one wants blurry and dark screen captures! Emma’s fansite has been slacking a little bit, but I hope to get back into that over the next few weeks. My fanlisting collective is still slowly moving. Slowly. I’ve averaged about moving 1 fanlisting a day, but with over 40 fanlistings, I need to pick up the pace!
In other news, I went to see the doctor this morning. I felt really awful about it because John had to stay home and watch Easton and David while I went. First of all, the hospital here seems very anti-bring-your-baby-into-the-hospital, unless you’re there because they have an appointment. A couple of weeks ago I went in to get some blood work done and when I went in the back after they called my number, the lady’s like “oh, you can’t bring the baby in here!” I’m, like, “uh…?!” Luckily one of the nurses said she’d sit with him, but I’m like REALLY?! I’m sorry I can’t afford day care and I don’t know anyone here so I can’t find a babysitter… it’s ridiculous! Plus, going today, I can’t bring Easton AND David as I have no car seat or stroller for David since I’m just baby sitting him. Ugh. This may be a little bit T.M.I. for some of you, but if I don’t explain I’m sure everyone will be asking… (it involves talking about sex and vaginas lol) So, when I had Easton last March, I got a 3rd degree tear (there’s only 4 degrees) on my perineum… which is the skin between your vagina and anus. Sounds awesome, right? Well, since then, John and I have been having issues sometimes when we make love. If he hits that spot too hard or at a certain angle, I feel like I’m being ripped open again and most of the time, there’s even a little bit of blood. I’ve been ignoring it and dealing with it for the most part for over year. For one, I’m embarrassed about it. Two, I was hoping it’d go away after awhile. Well, the other night it happened again and ruined an amazing night. It was also one of the worst times, and there was a little more blood than normal. (Normal is like 3 drops on the toilet paper, we’re not talking gushing) I mean, sex with your husband should be enjoyable, right?!
Anyway, when I went in for my yearly exam in April, I brought it up. The doctor said there may be a stitch or a knot that is taking longer to dissolve, and it may be causing the irritations. She checked, but didn’t see anything. We changed my birth control, and I hoped it would help. Guess not. Today, I had a different doctor. She looked (I needed to go today since the cut/tear is still there) and she told me it’s from “friction and moisture”… Uumm… isn’t that the point of intercourse?! I honestly don’t know what to do anymore She did a test for yeast infection as well, and saw 1 yeast (“Just 1” she said) so she prescribed some cream for that. I doubt it will help with my “tearing” problem, but I guess there’s nothing else they can do